How Has Having Kids Impacted Your Marriage? :: husband started changing during pregnancy

fiewestholsen — Sun, 25 Jul 2010 18:35:48 GMT

Author: fiewestholsen
Subject: husband started changing during pregnancy
Posted: Sun Jul 25, 2010 1:35 pm (GMT -5)

During my pregnancy my husband started acting less reliable and dissapointing me on several occasions - such as showing up late to appointments or going out to parties eventhough I asked him to stay home. He had never been like this before! When the baby came, the behaviour only got worse and also more agressive. He talked about how he wanted to be a good father, how that stressed him. In the mean while I felt very abandoned and lonely. I have felt hurt to many times that I don't know whether I can continue. He keeps on saying that it's my fault, that I don't understand him - and I don't, how can he do this to our family when we (I) need him the most. Do you have any good advice, or possible clarifications?